Endless Mental Discomfort
[ Home ]It's not easy for anybody to speak ill of someone who has been related with you， especially when he is your eldership. However, if you always keep some unpleasant things to yourself instead of talking about it with somebody, like a friend, siblings, or even stranger, if you just let these bloody unhappinesses itch your heart all the time, personally thinking, you can have only two results, neither time erases the impression given by your mental discomfort, then you totally have become a kind of forgetful people, nor time deepens your pain for it. Lif is just so extreme.
There is no denying that one will gradually be mature because of what he has experienced, from which he can learn a lesson in himself. But those are not all, not enough, not stronge, to determine his chracteristic, so long as to indirectly influence his whole fate. Namely, I hate the nearly all-recognized recognition： Respect the old, not for the old is equivalent with respectable, but they are old. What a freaking stupid unbelievable theory. Actually, years of living seldom leave an optimistic impression on most people, on the contrary, we can often see a cold, shameless, immoral and annoying spirit in a aged person. All the regrets resulted from how we used to obey old people's advice or views prove that we are wrong.
In a word, an old person with genuine excellent qualities is
surely respectable, and can be learnt from a much valuable knowledge.
But for us young men, never should we compromise easily before we clear
the right side. Once the heart is determined, then ignore all the scold
and gossip.
Or endless mental discomfort will drown you down. Just like me.