Sense of Ceremony
[ Home ]I am a man who lack the sence of ceremony.
I always ignore the birthday and other special days, such as wedding anniversary or New Year's day etc.
I like coffee, but I do not necessarily need a coffee cup to drink it, any container is OK.
The key is we do it but the way we do it is less important.
To the daily activities, I believe it is wasting of time if we emphasize the form too much.
The ceremony events which impressed me most was the graduation ceremony for my doctor degree.
It took several years of mine to get the degree, it was very hard and
I think I lost lots of opportunities to get more money or get more
colorful life.
I spent so much on it ,not only me but also my family . So when I got the degree in the end i was very excited。
I think that's really why people need the scense of ceremony.
Althouth I don't have so much sence of ceremony but my wife has.
she always remembers my birthday. Last year we family hanged out on my birthday, i was so happy.
I think it depends on whethere you know what you need indeed and purse it all your life.
If you spend too much time on meaningless things for you , I don't think you can get a not mediocre life.